When I was younger, in 9th grade, I became infatuated with a Turkish gal who later got the nickname ‘Turkish Delight’, from a poem I wrote about her (out of a dozen or so!). I spent the whole year of 9th grade thinking about her, and when she discovered I liked her, she decided she didn’t really want to talk to me or hang out with me. I was crushed and it took me quite a while to recover from that, move on, and be interested in other girls like a normal human being.
I remember distinctly one day, whilst in the car with my parents, after much thought, thinking I came up with the answer.
What answer? Why the answer to my problem – a broken heart.
I proudly announced to my parents that I knew the answer, “The best way to not get hurt is to never fall in love.”
Without missing a beat my Father told me that was the exact wrong answer to gleam from my situation. Rather than never falling in love, the correct answer was in fact to be more discriminating with regards to with whom one falls in love with.
Of course I thought I was right, even if I admitted that my Dad was usually right about everything.
It’s funny, because it took me almost 9 years to remember this incident and to have learned the lesson for myself. It really makes me wonder what other wisdom that my parents passed on to me that I just…didn’t hear or listen to.
Makes me all the more grateful they’re still around.