Let’s play a game.
I plan to write two stories this weekend for next week. One of them is a dream and one of them is prediction.
Any reader who comments explaining what I am trying to get across in either story the best, get’s one free book of their choice from the manosphere. A reader may comment on both stories, but may not win both books. I wish to give out two separate books to two different people.
Start picking your books now.
~Wald
If you want to make an impact on a girl, or develop a deeper connection with, a la deep conversion, as spoken about by Krauser and Xsplat, you should strive to become a phase of her life. Some of you may discount this idea and disparage its transient nature and argue that one should strive to be more permanent. While those arguments hold value, they miss the forest for the trees. The idea is that one sees phases of life everywhere. Everyone has that friend that listens to different music in different phases of his life. Sure, he eventually moves on to a new genre or band, but he never forgets that music he listened to or how it made him feel. Listening to that music is now a part of him and nothing can take that away from him.
Girls often have a friend who goes through boyfriends like an incontinent goes through toilet paper. Another friend goes through a slower, serial monogamy. One boyfriend after another. But they never really forget all the boyfriends they had. What they learned with each boyfriend and felt will be with them forever.
For those men suspiscious of the example with the girls, think of yourself, or a friend who is going through or has went through oneitis. You want to do that with a girl.
How do you do that?
You do that without thinking by having a special song. You listen to a certain song, album, or kind of music while spending time together (read: fucking). Hearing this music will bring out memories of time together and if you listened to a certain song while fucking (or right before), it can also get you horny.
You do this to yourself by listening to certain music during certain phases of your life. For example, I listened to a lot of Rammstein during high school and when I hear it I remember trying to sing along to the songs and adopt the singer’s vocal mannerisms to improve my German. I also remember giving myself homework assignments analyzing their songs and trying to come up with German poems that I could submit to the band with the intent that they’d make my poems into songs.
You take an experience and make it have such emotional traction that a woman will be reminded of it by various things through the rest of her years. The best way I can describe it – if you’ve ever felt oneitis for a girl, damn nearly everything reminded of her or an interaction with her in some way.
~Wald
The mandrosphere is as varied in topics as it is in the range of how deep each topic is explored. In terms of game, some men use game solely on the basis of chasing women. Other men call for gaming life itself, and not limiting one’s potential by not applying game’s principles to all areas of one’s life.
More and more I am moving into this camp. There may be other names for this (or different parts of it) such as having charisma, being operational, being savvy, and etc, but the idea is still the same. You want to get the most out of your life for the least amount of effort. That is not to say you can just work smart and not hard – I advocate working both smart and hard. But the harder you work now, the smarter you can work later and not have to work as hard.
As for how I came to write this post:
A couple of weekends ago, on Thanksgiving furlough, I made plans for two girls to come over my house and stay the night. They were going away for Thanksgiving and driving back on Sunday, so I couldn’t spend time with either of them earlier in the week. I assumed one of them would cancel (too tired from driving) so I didn’t think planning for two girls on one night wasn’t sound. I had met them both off POF (foreign girls) and so I know how flaky girls can be. The day they’d be coming, one of them cancelled and one of them, I had not heard from. I made plans with a third girl to watch a movie before I would have met up with a girl who was going to visit for the night. It ended up that both girls that night cancelled on me. So when I saw the movie, with movie girl, she came back to my house to “get directions” and I ended up fucking her that night. Had I not planned to movie, I probably would not have gotten laid that night.
This weekend, I planned to go home to meet up with a Colombiana one night and to meet up with fellow blogger the next day. I couldn’t get any rides from family or friends home, so I started to look into taking a taxi and a bus. The day before I would have left, one person told me they could take me home. I agreed to pay for gas in exchange for the ride. Because I thought I had a sure thing, I neglected to even check taxi or bus rates or times. The next day, when I got ready to go, I went to my friend’s room, and lo and behold, she had already left the previous day. The problem was more due to a failure of communication than anything else, but, had I arranged to take a taxi and bus as a back-up, just in case, I would be getting home right now.
Have a good week end.
~Wald